...When as his mother Mary was espoused to Joseph, before they came together, she was found with child of the Holy Ghost. Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily. Matthew 1:18-19
The above scripture is a reminder that God's ways aren't our ways neither His thoughts our thoughts. He won't do things the way we would, but what He does is always for our good.
Sometimes in our greatest challenges, we find our greatest opportunities and responsibilities. They are blessings from God (even though we may not realize it at the time). Don't miss your blessings because you can't get passed "what it looks like or what people will say or are saying." God blesses us SUPERNATURALLY, not naturally! BE BLESSED!!!!!!
For I know the thoughts I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Jeremiah 29:11