To appoint unto them that mourn in Zion, to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they might be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he might be glorified. Isaiah 61:3
There are times in our lives that we experience hurts that we feel are unbearable; a hurt so deep that we feel we won't or it's impossible to recover from. But it is during these times that we should bond even more with God. It is during these times that we should have total trust in Him that He will heal our broken heart.
Looking back on those times, they are probably viewed as the most difficult times in our lives. But if we truly evaluate the situation, we will find that they were some of the best times in our lives. It's like having the best of times and the worst of times all at the same time. God takes our painful situations and uses them not only to heal us and comfort us, but to also strengthen us.
Whatever you may be going through at this time, regardless of the hurt, regardless of the pain, just remember that God is the mender of broken hearts. BE BLESSED!