Inorder to have a healthy relationship with someone, one must have a strong relationship with God, self, and family and friends. I believe that how ever we are in these relationships, we bring those same qualities and characteristics into intimate relationships. Such as, if we are giving, it will show in our relationship; if we are selfish, that will also show.
When we think of having a healthy relationship, one important quality to have is trustworthiness. Can this person be trusted? Can you be trusted? One way to find the answer to this question is to evaluate your relationship with God. Can God trust you with the blessings He has given you ( your house, car, money, job, etc.)? Can He trust that you will give Him the praise for the things you have acquired or do you give yourself the credit? Can He trust you to seek Him first in all things or do you run to your girlfriends or guy friends?
Matthew 6:33 says,"But seek ye first the kingdom of God , and his righteous; and all these things shall be added unto you." So if we know this, when we are faced with a difficult situation,why do we run to the phone instead of the throne?